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Dear People,

Today I'm writing some EFT sentences to help with conflict. We experience conflict often in our lives - when people want things we don't want or do things we don't want them to do, but also when we have a conflict within ourselves.

So start dealing with conflict today by using EFT as a bridge to understanding and compromise

Dealing with inner conflict
Even though I don't know what I want, I choose to listen to all of myself
Even though I don't know what to do, I choose to listen to all of myself
Even though I feel torn, I choose to be open to a solution
Even though I feel conflicted, I choose to be open to compromise
Even though I feel restless during this conflict, I choose to be at peace
Even though I feel stressed about this conflict, I choose to relax
Even though this conflict is making me feel miserable, I'm confident about the future
Even though this conflict is painful, I choose to forgive myself
Even though this conflict is annoying, I honor myself completely

Dealing with conflict with others
Even though I feel X is wrong, I choose to listen
Even though I feel I'm right, I choose to listen to the other side
Even though I know X is wrong, I choose to listen 
Even though I know I'm right, I choose to listen to the other side
Even though I want to convince X, I choose to foster understanding
Even though I hate conflict between me and X, I choose to stand up for myself
Even though I hate conflict between me and X, I choose to honor myself
Even though I hate conflict between me and X, I choose to be brave
Even though I hate conflict between me and X, I choose allow it to resolve itself naturally
Even though I hate conflict between me and X, I choose to believe in a good resolution
Even though I hate conflict between me and X, I choose to foster understanding
Even though I hate conflict between me and X, I honor that we are different people
Even though I hate conflict between me and X, I honor that we have different opinions
Even though I hate conflict between me and X, I honor that we have different viewpoints

Dealing with conflicts in groups
Even though I'm disappointed nobody wants to listen to me, I choose to listen to others
Even though I feel upset that we are doing the wrong thing, I honor the majority
Even though I feel angry with the chosen course, I honor the majority
Even though I feel angry with the chosen course, I am free to honor myself and leave the group
Even though I feel powerless in this group, I choose to honor myself
Even though I don't want to follow others, I know when a fight isn't worth it
Even though I want to convince others, I choose to let it go
Even though I don't feel my voice is being heard, I choose to stand up for myself
Even though I don't feel my voice is being heard, I can choose to surround myself with other people
Even though I don't feel my voice is being heard, I can choose to let go
Even though I don't feel my voice is being heard, I can choose to leave

Want to chat about dealing with conflict? Post a message on the blog, Facebook Fan Page or e-mail me for a personalized EFT sentence!
Dear People,

We all can use some more happiness, as you can never be too happy. However, often, it's hard to keep the focus positive and happy. We get stressed, life gets hairy, we have to deal with things we don't like... so that's why today I'm writing affirmations on happiness. If you feel you can use some more happiness in your life - affirm it daily!

I write my affirmations in different levels so you can see what resonates with you and what you want to work on. You might start with a lower level that resonates and then move your way up.

Pick and choose what works for you and affirm away (I recommend three times a day if you can manage it).

I am able to be happy
I am able to be happy while I'm stressed
I am able to be happy during difficult times
I am always able to be happy

I am able to focus on my happiness
I am able to focus on my happiness around others
I am able to focus on my happiness while I'm stressed
I am able to focus on my happiness during my daily life
I am able to focus on my happiness during difficult times


I easily find happiness in small things
I easily find happiness in expressing myself
I easily find happiness in my social bonds
I easily find happiness within myself
I easily find happiness

I easily create happiness
I easily create happiness for myself
I easily create happiness for others
I easily create happiness for the world

I choose to have a happy mood
I choose to have a happy mind
I choose to have a happy body
I choose to have a happy soul
I choose to be a happy being

Have an affirmation you want to share? Don't hesitate to post it in a comment on the blog or on the Facebook Fan Page. You can also share your affirmation stories in the practice, by e-mail or publicly online


Dear People,

Today I'm writing a little bit about my cancellation policy. Sometimes we forget an appointment, sometimes life happens and we can't make it. That's understandable, but what's also understandable is that I invest time and energy into holding a spot for a client and doing the preparation work. I often thought on if I wanted to change, but I feel the current set up is fair for everybody involved.

Here is my reasoning:

When I started working I decided that I really would like to prepare my sessions in advance. Almost always the preparation is what the client wants to discuss in the first place - so it gives a lot of trust starting out this way. It fosters an environment of common ground and understanding. It also helps clients who have difficulty putting into words to what is bothering them.

I can't do the preparation work a long time in advance, due to the fact that the energy field fluctuates since life fluctuates. So I do most of this work somewhere within 24 hours before a session. Sometimes that's in the morning for an evening session, sometimes it's after dinner and very rarely it's the evening before. If I have a busy day ahead it just makes sense if I'm at the practice already to do it then, so in particular Friday's sessions are often done Thursday evening.

I have a maximum of the amount of sessions I can do a week - this is to keep myself sane and healthy and to be able to give my best to my clients. Rarely, I work outside my normal business hours, for example if I'm doing house visits, have to visit somebody at the hospital or if somebody has a strange work schedule. When I do, I keep into account that I will have to cut session time from my normal working hours. So when people cancel, that means I immediately have availability for somebody else. If you cancel in advance, no problem, I can contact people and make it work. If nobody can fit the slot, I can take my laptop and work on the administration, the promotion or any of the other things I need to do for my business.

When people cancel too late or not at all, I'm stuck with preparation work that I have to throw out, a slot that I couldn't fill and of course also time that is wasted. If I allow this to continue, that means paying clients are picking up the slack for non-paying clients, which I feel is very unfair.

I'm happy with how I do my work in the practice, so if people do not agree, I counsel them to not book sessions with me.

So the second question often is: How come you don’t know if people need to cancel/ won’t show as a Psychic?

First of all keeping an eye on everybody’s life would be dreadfully time and energy consuming. Secondly it’s rare for me to check into other peoples lives except for preparation for a session or during a session. I would have to check and recheck often, as for some people the reason they aren't able to show up happens on the day itself while others might forget to write down the appointment during their last session.

Also, if I do get the sense something is wrong, what should I do? Hound somebody to see if they will come until their appointment date and time? Not show up myself or book somebody else in that slot? None of these are good options so that also makes keeping an eye out for this situation even more a waste of time and effort.

Personally, I don’t like late cancellations or people completely forgetting their session. I understand why people feel that 'mistakes happen' and it how was 'just the first time'. I always try to foster understanding that while you might feel that you got 'nothing for your money', I have worked for your session.

Lately, I've been thinking on if I want to send people text messages or e-mails a day before a session, but automating this is not very easy for me. Doing it all manually means that each session needs an additional 5-10 minutes of my time. That's just not worth it for the few people a year who forget a session or cancel later then the 24 hour window.

Have a question for me or a good solution? Talk to me in the practice, post a message on the blog or send me an e-mail.



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