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Dear People,

We all want to progress in life: to learn, to achieve our goals and to move forward. Today I'm going to talk about some different ways of measuring progress. I don't think I will ever outgrow the need to measure things as I love reflecting and taking stock. It helps to keep me motivated and to see where I need to do more work and to enjoy my results. It's no wonder I was studying to be an engineer!

Progress Measurement: Physical results
Most people measure their progress in this way, so this needs very little explanation. However, while it's the most common way to measure progress I don't always feel that it's the most accurate.

Examples:
  • When we want to lose weight we check the scale and see how much we weigh.
  • When we want to stop smoking we check if we smoked or not
  • When we want to have a relationship we check how our dates are going 
 When people don't see physical results they often get discouraged. They feel 0 progress has been made, but that's not always the case.

Progress Measurement: Emotional progress
While working towards our goals we often find out that we have emotional blockages that keep us stuck. We might be afraid to move forward, we might find we sabotage ourselves or have past issues need healing. Emotional progress might not immediately give physical results, but it makes sure that changes we make are lasting.

Examples:
  • We feel excited/happy about changes that we want to make
  • We accept the status quo 
  • We feel strong and energetic enough to make changes
  • We don't feel easily discouraged when a change takes longer or when we have a regression
  • We can celebrate every little breakthrough
Progress Measurement: Mental progress
While working towards our goals we can also have mental blockages that can keep us stuck. We might not see a way out of the situation or worry incessantly about it. We might have trouble getting the information we need, to stick to a certain path or make the behavioral changes that we need. Again, mental progress doesn't immediately give physical result, but it helps make lasting changes.

Examples:
  • We think about solutions, not problems
  • We can honestly analyze what is going on
  • We feel confident 
  • We are able to brainstorm instead of stress out
Truthful Measuring
I prefer asking myself the following questions:
  • What has changed?
Have I seen changes in myself? Have I seen changes in the world around me? Do I still feel the same about the goal? Did I see things that could help me? Did anybody offer help? Did I receive information.
  • If nothing has changed, why is that?
    Is there something that was more important? Have I invested time/energy into the change I wanted? If not, why not? Am I sabotaging myself or have I chosen other priorities willingly and knowingly?
    • If I would start on my goals today, what would I do?
    When do I want to recheck my progress? What do I want to plan? What do I want to do? What extra actions can I take?

    Have a goal you want to progress on? Comment on the blog or Facebook Fan Page or talk to me!

    Dear People,

    Ready to keep those EFT muscles working with some more helpful sentences? Today I chose to give you some sentences on letting go. A lot of us has trouble releasing troublesome feelings that keep us from being the best we can be.

    EFT Sentences on letting go easily
     
    Even though I'm stuck in my anger, I let go easily and completely
    Even though I'm stuck in my pain, I let go easily and completely
    Even though I'm stuck in my grief, I let go easily and completely
    Even though I feel emotionally stuck, I let go easily and completely
    Even though I'm stuck in <this emotion>,  I let go easily and completely
    Even though I feel emotionally swamped, I let go easily and completely

    EFT Sentences on common thoughts of letting go

    Even though I think I can't let go, I choose to let go easily
    Even though I think I don't let go easily, I choose to change this pattern right now
    Even though I think letting go is hard, I choose to let go easily from now on
    Even though I feel my emotions are often stuck, I choose to let go easily
    Even though people told me letting go is hard, I choose to let go easily
    Even though I think a lot has to happen for me to let go, I choose to let go easily
    Even though letting go might feel letting somebody off the hook, I choose to let go easily

    EFT Sentences on letting go

    Even though letting go has been difficult for me, I choose a healthier path
    Even though I feel emotionally overwhelmed, I can feel emotionally healthy
    Even though I can't seem to find peace, I choose to let go of negativity

    Want to share your story of letting go or ask for some help with the process? Post a message on the Blog, Facebook Fan Page or talk to me in the practice.


    Dear People,

    The most common complaint I hear from clients is that while they love the technique of EFT and the results, forming the right sentences can be a challenge. You might not know the root cause that needs to be removed or it might be hard to just start.

     So, in the coming year I plan to regularly post EFT freebies on the blog to help you with goals and problems. Transformation sometimes has to be moved along so it's an excellent goal to expedite with EFT.

    Pick and choose what sentences are right for you!

    EFT Sentences on the transformation process
     
    Even though I'm not seeing any progress, I trust in the transformation process
    Even though I'm afraid progress is stalled, I trust in the transformation process
    Even though I feel progress is blocked, I trust in the transformation process
    Even though I feel progress is slow, I trust in the transformation process

    EFT Sentences on common transformation blocks

    Even though I'm afraid to change, I move forward with confidence
    Even though I'm worried about change, I move forward with confidence
    Even though it's difficult to let go of what no longer suits me, I move forward with confidence
    Even though I'm angry at the situation, I move forward with confidence
    Even though I'm sad about the situation, I move forward with confidence

    EFT Sentences on transforming

    Even though transformation sounds difficult, I easily transform every day
    Even though transformation sounds/feels scary, changes are necessary in life
    Even though transformation seems unlikely, I let go of what no longer suits me
    Even though transformation seems painful, I know in the end great rewards await me

    Want to share your transformation story or ask for some help with the process? Post a message on the Blog, Facebook Fan Page or talk to me in the practice.