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Dear People,

It's June and the practice is now 10 years old. Last month I met up with somebody who told me that when I just started out I transformed her life by saying something to her. She couldn't even remember anymore what it was exactly, but she just wanted to let me know how much it meant to her. This sparked the discussion on how much I remember about past clients and sessions with somebody who watched this exchange.

Do I remember clients/sessions?
The short answer is sometimes. I'm not perfect and while I have a good memory it isn't really for faces or names. I've been working on that, but more for my social life than for remembering clients. Some people I've worked with longer so it's easier to remember them and some just made an impact into my memory due to their questions or situation.

The long answer is: I would like to remember clients, but not all the sessions.

I have trouble remembering clients when I meet them in a group (like the Reading/Healing Evenings or on a fair. I usually see so much people, that it can blur a bit together. I think some clients have heard me tell any group: "While I try to remember you and what the Readings where about, please be mindful that if you would ask me again in a week or 2, I probably won't remember. It's not that I don't care, it's that I give out and receive so much information it's hard to retain which information belongs to whom.

As for sessions, if I would stay connected to every session and reading I did, I'd probably have no peace. I'd wonder about that person who came to ask about their relationship (are they still married?), that decision (did they emigrate?) or that health problem (did they heal?). I try to let sessions go as soon we end sessions together. Sometimes I get closure - and sometimes I don't. I try not to wonder why people sometimes don't come back after cancelling a session or don't want to update me on their life. I know life can get busy and I'm only a small chapter or even a page in their book.

So, in a perfect life, I'd remember you, a short summary of what we did and we'd meet as old acquaintances when we see each other - eager to update each other and then let go again until the universe brings us together again. And you feel welcomed to send me an e-mail, Facebook message or text to let me know something I predicted came true and brought you joy. It brings me a lot of joy to read those, so I'm always happy to hear from clients.

To make that story happen more often, I keep a short summary from people who I've seen in the practice for paid sessions, but this is only something I've been doing systematically since the start of 2018. Before I had a card system, which meant I often didn't update it and didn't really clear it out based on dates. So I am expecting a lot more easier meetings in my future and I like that I have more options on after care. This system helps me to input important dates and sets reminders for when I promised to keep in touch with clients.

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Dear People,

Today I'm writing some EFT sentences to help with conflict. We experience conflict often in our lives - when people want things we don't want or do things we don't want them to do, but also when we have a conflict within ourselves.

So start dealing with conflict today by using EFT as a bridge to understanding and compromise

Dealing with inner conflict
Even though I don't know what I want, I choose to listen to all of myself
Even though I don't know what to do, I choose to listen to all of myself
Even though I feel torn, I choose to be open to a solution
Even though I feel conflicted, I choose to be open to compromise
Even though I feel restless during this conflict, I choose to be at peace
Even though I feel stressed about this conflict, I choose to relax
Even though this conflict is making me feel miserable, I'm confident about the future
Even though this conflict is painful, I choose to forgive myself
Even though this conflict is annoying, I honor myself completely

Dealing with conflict with others
Even though I feel X is wrong, I choose to listen
Even though I feel I'm right, I choose to listen to the other side
Even though I know X is wrong, I choose to listen 
Even though I know I'm right, I choose to listen to the other side
Even though I want to convince X, I choose to foster understanding
Even though I hate conflict between me and X, I choose to stand up for myself
Even though I hate conflict between me and X, I choose to honor myself
Even though I hate conflict between me and X, I choose to be brave
Even though I hate conflict between me and X, I choose allow it to resolve itself naturally
Even though I hate conflict between me and X, I choose to believe in a good resolution
Even though I hate conflict between me and X, I choose to foster understanding
Even though I hate conflict between me and X, I honor that we are different people
Even though I hate conflict between me and X, I honor that we have different opinions
Even though I hate conflict between me and X, I honor that we have different viewpoints

Dealing with conflicts in groups
Even though I'm disappointed nobody wants to listen to me, I choose to listen to others
Even though I feel upset that we are doing the wrong thing, I honor the majority
Even though I feel angry with the chosen course, I honor the majority
Even though I feel angry with the chosen course, I am free to honor myself and leave the group
Even though I feel powerless in this group, I choose to honor myself
Even though I don't want to follow others, I know when a fight isn't worth it
Even though I want to convince others, I choose to let it go
Even though I don't feel my voice is being heard, I choose to stand up for myself
Even though I don't feel my voice is being heard, I can choose to surround myself with other people
Even though I don't feel my voice is being heard, I can choose to let go
Even though I don't feel my voice is being heard, I can choose to leave

Want to chat about dealing with conflict? Post a message on the blog, Facebook Fan Page or e-mail me for a personalized EFT sentence!