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Dear People,

Today I'm writing some EFT sentences to help with feeling safe. A lot of times life can throw us curve balls that make us fear or worry and some of us have gone through traumatic situations that have threatened our natural feelings of safety. A lot of times people try to feel safe by imposing rules or trying to control themselves or others, but this doesn't work long term. When the rules or control eventually breaks, the fear comes back a hundred fold. It's important to create safety by knowing that you are strong enough to deal with whatever life throws at you, can call in help and support and find a way to heal.

So start dealing with conflict today by using EFT as a bridge to understanding and compromise

Letting go of rules
Even though I want people to follow the rules so I'm safe, I choose to be safe regardless
Even though I want rules create fake safety, I choose to find true safety without rules
Even though I want to put conditions on my safety, I choose to be unconditionally safe
Even though rules make me feel safer, I choose to be unconditionally safe

Letting go of control
Even though I want to control myself, I choose to feel safe with myself
Even though I want to control my emotions, I'm always safe to express myself
Even though I want to control my behavior, I'm always safe to be me
Even though I want to control my pain, I choose to let go safely
Even though I want to control my environment, I'm always safe
Even though I want to control others, it's safe to let everybody be their best selves
Even though control makes me temporarily feel safer, I choose to be unconditionally safe
Even though I can't control life, I can choose how I respond to it 
Even though I can't control life, I can choose how I deal with issues

Letting go of trauma
Even though I felt unsafe with X in the past, I choose to reclaim true safety
Even though I felt unsafe during situation Y in the past, I choose to reclaim true safety
Even though I feel unsafe, I choose to reclaim true safety
Even though I lost my safety, I choose to reclaim it completely now

True safety
Even though it's easy to find fake/temporary safety, I'm strong and powerful within myself
Even though I feel I need rules, I choose to feel safe in my strength to deal with myself/others/life
Even though I feel I need control, I choose to feel safe in my strength to deal with life
Even though I might experience dangerous things in life, I know I'm stronger so I feel true safety
Even though I might experience difficult things in life, I know I'm stronger so I feel true safety
Even though I might experience difficult things in life, I can always call for Heavenly help
Even though I might experience difficult things in life, I can find somebody to help me
Even though I don't know how it feels, I choose to experience true safety
Even though I don't know how to create it, I choose to create true safety


Want to chat about dealing with how to feel safe? Post a message on the blog, Facebook Fan Page or e-mail me for a personalized EFT sentence!


Dear People,

Recently I was asked how I deal with people who don't believe in the work I do. There are several types of 'unbelievers' and how they respond to me, so there are also different ways in how I respond to them. The short answer is: I don't have problems with people who find my work strange, weird or unusual. Read on to hear about the longer answer.

Open minded unbelievers
A lot of people in this group don't have much experience with spirituality or spiritual healers. They have no idea what to expect and often find the idea of Psychics strange or unsettling. It doesn't fit in their world view. They are used to things that they can measure or see and that the future is all open. The idea that it might not be, creates a feeling of unease.

Often I see this group of people when I have treated their partner, family, friend or neighbor. They see a lot of results; like more energy, less pain, stronger personality/more inner peace; and they want that for themselves too. So they are willing to try something new and they often tell me upfront that they never done anything like this and they aren't quite sure if they believe in it.

Some open minded unbelievers are desperate with chronic or severe health issues, who feel like they really do just need to try everything. Often I'm the last stop for them, as they tried many things, and they are finally opening up to things much more out of their comfort zone.

I tell all of them the same: you don't have to believe in it for it to work. I work with their slight discomfort when they notice I know things about them that they haven't told me. As soon as they see results, most of this group is happy to stay with: "I don't know why it works, but I'm happy it does". Sometimes they go on to work more with spiritual or personal development, because the work for I did for them allows them open up their worldview.

We then often discuss a lot of things that we know exists, but we are unable to measure or record. Like for example, what we are dreaming or something as powerful as love. We often also speak about how science is catching up and starting to measure things that spiritual teachers have talked about for ages. There have been studies that we carry memories in our DNA for example, which fits with the idea of many spiritual teachers that we need to release memories and behavior patterns from our ancestors. A lot more research is being done about how important gut health is, while a lot of healers focus on the intestinal tract/stomach area as well. Quantum Theory is also very interesting and I'm hopeful my work will be able to be measured in my lifetime. It's something that would make me exceedingly happy.

Rude or close minded unbelievers
Some people don't believe in what I do and then also find it their business to insult me, by claiming I'm a fake, a charlatan or whatever insult they prefer. They might also try to convince me that the work I do doesn't work, even though I have hundreds of satisfied clients. I know that's anecdotal evidence only, but it still exists.

I tend to stay polite and tell them that they are free to their beliefs, as am I. I rarely meet people who want to tell me what to believe and not believe in, but sometimes I do. It's quite interesting to me that often they are looking for a strong response from me, but then are very unhappy when they don't get it.

I feel everybody should be free to believe in what they want. I never discuss things with them, because I know discussing with people who only want to be rude or who aren't open to other people's viewpoints is useless.

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